“Being 99, she had saved really pretty much everything you can imagine”
Sometimes you look at a really big job as a mountain, and I had that a couple years ago when my, my mom passed away. And she had been on hospice in her home, so we were able to keep her there and we had some very wonderful caregivers that cared about her just like she was their own mother. So, it took -- it was about five months from May till October first that she was on hospice. And she would have times when she really thought she was just gonna lick it, and continue on for another 10, 15 years, but she was 99 when she died. So -- but then she would, you know then it would come back, she had congestive heart failure. So she'd have some moments when she felt pretty good. But she had lived in the house that she had for probably 40 years. And, I was able to -- I inherited the house, so I had the job of cleaning it out. And that was a mountain because she -- being 99, she had saved really pretty much everything you can imagine. Every bill, every -- all of her insurance papers, deeds from places where -- that they owned property -- they owned, that they hadn't owned for years, that they’d sold many -- just, all kinds of tax records but tax records from 50 years ago. And her and my dad had a business and boxes of papers from 50 years ago when he had sold it. So -- or before he had sold it and just all the bookkeeping. So, it was a mountain to go through everything because I did not want to just hire somebody to do it. And it -- we went, I went through everything. So, every week I would load my car up either with a bunch of papers to recycle, or things to go to Volunteers of America to donate, or -- and then I would also -- there was a dumpster there that I would just fill my car. I would fill up that dumpster every two weeks with things that were useless that she had hung on to and it just, it really makes me like the minimalistic idea much, much more so that I don't do that to my family.